How to Avoid Many Common Disappointments

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2-10-2016, 04:25
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Would you like to make some changes in life to avoid the usual or common disappointments? Here's how to actually begin working through that.

Steps

  1. Walk by faith, not (only) by sight. Avoid allowing situations to rule your life -- not being too upset by: ~ "People" that might even seem to try to disappoint you -- but accept them as they are, and expect your own best by not letting others' coldness or paranoia to stop your outgoing, positive efforts. ~ "Circumstances" that might easily disappoint you, but work through them and keep going toward your goals. ~ "Yourself" by not thinking of yourself as a disappointment to others or to yourself. Do your part, and be above board: sincerely engaged and say:
    • "I'm still trying."
  2. Get training and education that you desire and need.
    • Keep growing into a higher calling to go beyond disappointing circumstances.
  3. Serve needs: focus on true needs of others, while creating what you yourself need for your own situation/need: and, when serving you have "deserving" to consider, so your efforts are not wasted on those who don't try to improve or to help others (by passing it on).
  4. Never maintain lists of disappointing:
    • "People to get even with" or argue with, or to write-off;
    • "Setbacks and hurts" in relationships, forget 'em;
    • "Failed jobs and work," career setbacks; companies going out of business.When one door closes; another one opens. "Knock-knock!"
  5. Change and help change to come to your area of responsibility by working and, also, supporting others' important events when possible.Realize that success [not a destination] is making some progress, every day and every hour (plus getting needed rest is also real progress)...
  6. Forgive and forget (if you can forget) -- or forgive without forgetting, if the "fault" is sculpted (carved) in your mind.
    • Let yesterday and its events go. Do not bury them deep in your mind where they will turn sore/sour and even poisonous (to your own attitudes):
      • "Get rid of it!" Get busy today, carrying good attitudes into tomorrow.
  7. Be a better friend, and receive friendship in turn. Don't let anyone be your enemy -- but seek to demonstrate friendship, even if the other party is not seeking your friendship.
  8. Use each day well, and don't let it slip by so then:
    • "Look for the good that is within that day, whether difficult or easy."
  9. Choose to have and show joy that does not come from momentary rising and falling circumstances. Don't let the tides of life throw you off your plan -- or your course for your career, family, friends.
  10. Accept the new day as a fresh opportunity. Let each passing day stay in its place (the past). Let today be your day of unfolding hope, faith, truth and love! Love without keeping score: unconditionally, while setting goals for yourself to go beyond.
  11. Show gratitude and give grace: Also earn gratitude, by doing right, honoring every person in your life, as the person each one is/may be. Then be looking for the flood of opportunities in life (also called "problems" to solve) that the future holds for you and yours.
  12. Sublimate problems: let your anger, anxiety, desire, "dream" or frustration give you extra energy to do better! This may be working, studying or practicing more than ever, thinking proactive thoughts, such as: "I'll show them that I can be/do great!" Then do better than anyone would expect by using weakness to spark a flow of energy!
  13. Persist/Continue: "You need some talent -- but persistence is as necessary and more important than raw talent!" Sustain your efforts, working smarter, not just harder or longer -- to build-up some talent with faith and hope for real success.

Tips

  • Your life is not "someone else’s" to manage -- so be faithful to your goals and to the values that you believe and want to advance!
  • Let others find life and happiness in their own ways. In the meantime, choose to live life to the overflowing. If some of your life overflows and others choose to enjoy it with you; be happy.
  • Work and study in your areas of weakness to make your weakness bring out "strength" in a subject, to increase your result to the maximum.
  • Be contented in working to improve -- and to help others.
  • In all things (that could have been disappointments) "overcome the world;" clear the obstacles.

Warnings

  • You can’t “make” people choose to avoid disappointment, to be happy or “make” others love one another -- or do anything else -- as you think they should.
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