How to Ask a Guy out (if You're a Girl)

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You've been flirting for weeks but he still hasn't asked you out, yet! What is a girl to do? Its simple, ask him out yourself.

Steps

  1. Start a conversation with him. This is important. It shows that you have self confidence and have something interesting to talk about. Guys are people, too. Sometimes they aren't sure if you're single, interested or if you just want friendship. Next time you see him, meet him halfway. Start up a conversation about something fun you did this week. Keep it G rated. Tell him about your amazing hike or a tennis game you went to. If he listens to you and has input, that's a good clue that he likes talking to you.
  2. Look nice. Make sure that you look radiant when you leave the house. Keep your makeup like you normally do, try to keep it natural and soft if possible. Make sure you're clean and glowing. Make eye contact when you see him and smile slightly. This shows him you feel fondly toward him.
  3. Every time you see him, make sure you say "hey, (his name) how are things going?" That shows him you are caring and interested in what's going on with him but it isn't too forward, just friendly. It will also open him up to start a conversation with you. Since you started the first one, let him start a few and take turns starting. That way you give him a chance to show his interest in you, if he is.
  4. Start flirting. Do small things to flirt. Don't be vulgar or nasty about it. Keep it G rated. Touch his arm, let him touch your arm. Make sure you are comfortable with it, either way. Smile and laugh with him and let him do the same.
  5. Wait for him to ask. If you want to wait for him to ask, give it a few encounters. Build up the suspense. If he is interested, most guys will go on and ask you out somehow. Other guys are shy or maybe he just isn't good at reading signals. If he likes being around you and talking to you, though it's a good indication that he is interested.
  6. If he doesn't, ASK HIM OUT! We can never be 100% sure if someone else is interested in us. A pretty good indication as to whether or not a guy is interested in knowing more about you is this: Does he like being around you, seeing you, listening to you and/or talking to you? Most guys will not care if they are near you or care to listen to you if they aren't interested. So if you are in a room together and you find he prefers to stay in areas where he can see you or be nearer to you and get a chance to talk to you, then that's a good sign.
    • This is tricky for women. We have been conditioned to wait and let them ask. I say, we should take our dating lives into our own hands instead of waiting for some guy we may or may not end up liking to do all the deciding. Plus, a lot of men like for a woman to take the pressure off them. Say it like this, "Hey Bob, if you're not doing anything for lunch Sunday we should get together and try that new Chinese place down the block. What do you say?" Or if you are more comfortable, ask him over to your place for dinner one night.
  7. While you're on the date, be yourself. Look nice and clean. Greet him with a hug. That will break the contact barrier and make you more comfortable. Smile and laugh and don't put pressure on yourself. it's a date, not a marriage proposal. You don't really know how deeply your interest goes, yet anyway. Say things like "I like spending time with you, you always make me laugh." Be positive and somewhere between friendly and flirty. After the date, if you want a kiss, say "I'm glad we did this, I've had a great time." Give him a hug and then some eye contact. If he doesn't go in for the kiss but you think he wants to like you do, kiss him. There's nothing to lose, you're not in a relationship yet anyway.

Tips

  • Sometimes it's okay to be into a guy with a girlfriend. But you NEVER ask them out. Just wait. They'll probably break up in no time, and while you wait, still be his friend. Don't shove him aside because he's taken and then spend time with him just because he's single.
  • If you do, it shows that you're probably desperate. If a boy thinks that then he probably won't like you as much. NEVER make a boy look like he's cheating.
  • Don't always go to text or talk to him all the time. Talk to him regularly, or when you see him, but going to him all the time might make you look desperate and he might start not liking you.

Warnings

  • Date rape is on the rise. Always let someone trusted know where you are going and with whom you'll be.
  • If someone is coming over for dinner, let a trusted person know who they are. Most people seem nice, but judging from people being in prison we can see that not all people are nice. Be safe and have fun!
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