How to Create a Great Relationship

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30-10-2016, 06:36
It can be confusing and tiring going from relationship to relationship wondering what you are doing wrong. It can also be disappointing to be in a longer-lasting relationship, only to find it's all hard work and challenges rather than joy and connection. In this article, you'll discover some ways to improve your own relating skills, to help make each relationship you're in a great one.


  1. Be clear as to your intentions and desires for a relationship. This is something that you need to do for yourself, so that you're aware what you hope to contribute to the relationship and what you hope the relationship will be for you.
    • Ask yourself "What kind of relationship do I want?" This could be anything from someone to spend time with to having a long-term relationship and maybe marriage or lifelong friendship.
  2. Set your focus toward attracting a person who desires the same kind of relationship as you.
    • Put yourself out there to meet this person (parties, gatherings, online dating and so forth).
  3. Introduce yourself to people. The aim is to have fun while getting to know people.
    • Talk to people that interest you and just be calm, relaxed and have fun.
  4. Ask people you connect with if they would like to join you for tea or coffee sometime.
    • Set up a time and place to meet them.
  5. Ask questions. When you meet them for first time the secret is creating a great relationship is in the questions you ask them about themselves. Spend a lot of time listening and learning.
    • Get a sense of their beliefs, morals and relationship patterns. (Keep it subtle at first date and intensify the questions as you progress to more dates)
    • 1000 Questions for couples is a great tool which you can get below.
  6. Respectfully accept all the answers that your date gives you without judgment. Know that if they don't answer the question as you would ideally like for a good intimate match, they can always be a great friend.
  7. Be present to the moment. Don't think about a month or year from now. Most importantly, aim to have fun!


  • Things you might like to try to get to know people better include: Going to a movie, going to a concert, visiting the park, go shopping, go on a scavenger hunt, listen to the birds or visit a fancy restaurant.
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