How to Get a Girl if You're Short

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Do you have your eyes on a girl, but you're shorter than everyone, even her? Not a problem! These steps will allow anyone of less than average height to 'get' a girl. Read on from step number one below.

Steps

  1. Decide what 'getting' a girls means to you. Most people would be content at having a female aged between 12 and 14 having an interest in them beyond a platonic friendship and some physical demonstration of this. Your definition of 'getting' may be this, it may be saying you're boyfriend and girlfriend, or girlfriends, it might be that to 'get' a girl you simply get a her phone number, or you get a make-out session. Whatever your personal definition of 'getting' a girl is, have it well defined so you know what you are aiming to achieve.
  2. Get to know people in general. People are always wanting to be popular, but in this case it might be essential. If you have a lot of friends she might realize that there's more to you than she thought.
  3. Get to know her. Most important, because you have to know what she likes. Simple things like her favorite animal, color, and personality can help a lot. If you think she has a simple personality, don't tell her that, unless you have too.
  4. Be yourself. So you're short, so what. Hopefully if you are trying to get a girl, you are a boy or a girl yourself and still have some growing to do. You shouldn't let your height define you, whether the situation is permanent or not. Nice girls won't judge you on your height. You can't help being short, so why should any decent human being see it as, excuse the pun, a short coming? Show a girl you're trying to get what you can do, don't focus on what you can't do.
  5. Don't ignore the fact you're short if something happens to make if overly apparent. When you first meet people, they will be curious. You don't have to explain why you are short to everyone you meet, but if you both just ignore something like you not being able to reach a door bell, or something on a shelf, it'll be embarrassing for you both. Ask for help from the girl you're trying to get if you need to. If she's a nice girl, she will be happy to help. If you ignore a problem, or she has to see you struggle, she will pity you, and you probably don't want that. It's okay to ask her to help you if you need help.
  6. Joke about the situation if you feel it's appropriate. If you know a little about her sense of humour, and you think she will laugh at corny lines, use some. Try, 'I like people I can look up to' or, 'How's the weather up there?'. Address what she might be anxious about in a humorous way, if you want. Tell her you think she'd look great in heels of a date, tell her you don't even like the big rides at the fair or that you actually prefer to sit in the front row at the cinema.
  7. Be practical. Remember, you've been short for a while, a girl you're trying to get won't know what prejudice and ignorance you face. She may worry what other people think. She might feel self conscience holding your hand in public if she's a lot taller than you. Try to reassure her that you can cope with what others say and don't care what they think. If you can't cope, and you do care, she's not the girl you should be trying to get, not yet anyway. If she's a lot taller than you she may be worried about kissing, if you can't easily be face to face. Tell her, if you feel comfortable doing so, that when things get as far as kissing, you'll be feeling ten feet tall and more than happy to ask her to sit down beside you for a kiss that won't crick her neck.
  8. Ask her out. Be confident, but it's OK to be nervous. If you're not nervous, and it's obvious, she might think it's a joke.
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