How to Be a Great Guest for a Holiday Dinner

Steps

1. Know that this dinner is just like any other dinner, even if it's with people on whom you want to make a great impression. Try to calm your nerves. Be engaging with other guests and remember to smile.
2. Be on time. Punctuality shows respect and personal responsibility. Arriving too early could interrupt the host's preparations, and lateness distracts guests from their conversations and potentially brings the host away from the party. Neither of these scenarios cast you in a positive light.
3. Always bring something to compliment the dinner. You may ask the host what to bring, but it is bad form to ask whether or not to bring it. The host could feel obligated to say no out of politeness. Some examples of what to bring are wine, champagne, a dessert, or even some festive flowers.
4. Once you've arrived, personally thank the host for having you over. Be genuine and to the point.
5. Don't make this dinner about you. Keep it about the holiday. Dress tastefully and leave personal drama at home.
6. Keep in mind, holiday dinners are usually family focused. Steer clear of anything that could cause any uncomfortable situations. No discussion of politics, religion, or strong beliefs, even if other guests are engaging in it. If asked your opinion, try to keep it light and diplomatic.
7. Eat and drink lightly and politely. The last thing the host needs is to be put in a position to explain your actions to their guests.
8. Do not talk on your cell phone, text, or do social media networking.
9. Thank the host again, as well as the cook if these duties were shared. Find something nice to say about the food, the house, or environment. Be merry and enjoy!