How to Survive a Break Up (Girls)

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Whether or not it's your first partner, this article will help you how to survive a break up with grace and dignity. Everybody breaks up sometime. Now is the time to find ways on how to heal and get over it. Most people just need to know how to deal with it in a way that doesn't make you look like you are stupid. Here are some following steps you can take for getting over that certain person and leaving with your head held high.

Steps

  1. Do not cry in front of them - you don’t want to look like a basket case and make them think that they're making the right decision. Hug them goodbye, wish them luck with life, and leave with pride. If you have good self esteem, you know that it is their loss.
  2. Get in the car and let out a good scream when you’re at least two blocks away from their house. Blast angry, loud music, and let it out.
  3. Drive to your best friend’s house for a shoulder to cry on. They will be able to make you laugh and say all the right things to make you feel better, such as: You’re too sweet, pretty, nice, popular, and smart for your ex-partner.
  4. Cry. Have a long, good cry.
  5. Box up all the things that they gave you, or that remind you of them. Put them in a box for a time when you’re less emotional and want to look back at them. Do not act hastily and throw out or burn things, you may want them in the future.
  6. Print out all emails they sent you; gather up all letters they wrote you. Then, delete the emails and give the paper copies to a friend to keep in a safe place. This will prevent you from going back and obsessing over the emails, but they will still be there if you want them in the future.
  7. Cut off all contact with them for at least a month; this will help the healing process because you won’t be talking to them all the time.
  8. If you see them regularly at work or school, always look good. Don’t look like you’re trying, but always look good so that they regret their decision.
  9. When they do come back around, (because you’re too great of a girl for them to not come back), make them work for your attention. Even though you may still like them, make them think that they have to win you back, and that you have other prospects out there waiting for you.
  10. If you let them back in, make sure you're strict about you staying. Make them think you chose to be back with them rather than other people that asked you out.

Tips

  • Stay busy. If you’re constantly doing something, you will have less time to think about him. This will also make you look more appealing to him because you’re busy. Guys always want what they can’t have.
  • Don't beg for him back because that can make you look very desperate.
  • Relax. If he truly is the love of your life, things will work out for the best in the end.
  • Girls are hormonal. We tend to make a big deal out of things we shouldn't. In a lot of cases it's not that bad, all you'll need is a little time. Try talking to people who you can trust. Don't hide in the closet and wait for everything to be over!
  • Surround yourself with things that you love- that doesn't have to do with him! Friends, movies and ice cream does help!
  • Don't always be smiling. Constantly smiling to falsify your happiness can be creepy, and doesn't fool them.
  • Do not call him! Never, under no circumstances. This will make you look desperate to have him back. You do not want this!
  • Try listening to some good music and avoid listening to sad songs, it will make you cry and miss him.
  • Find a rebound! But be careful not to get too emotional. It might sound selfish but to see that there are other people who appreciate you for who u are gives you a great deal of comfort and confidence. Plus it helps you get over your ex faster. Feel free to cry when you get home after your dates with the rebound guy. This way you make sure you're grieving in a healthy way. After all, breaking up with someone is like losing a loved one. Chin up!
  • You can always stay friends with your ex-boyfriend even though it seems to be unlikely, so don't stress about never seeing him again.

Warnings

  • Time is the only sure way to get over someone.
  • Whatever you do, don't take revenge. He might think you're immature and will never speak to you again. And you don't want that, now do you?
  • You will find someone soon! Time heals all wounds. Time is the only way to actually get over someone.
  • Caution, guys can break your heart!
  • This plan is not foolproof; you may still be broken-hearted.
  • Nobody said love was easy, and nobody said love would be this hard, but try to stay strong !
  • You can still be friends with him!

Things You'll Need

  • Music (listening to your favorite band/artist always helps. No love songs! )
  • Tissues
  • Blanket
  • Favorite movie
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