How to Get over Being Shy in Front of Your Crush (Girls)

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Don't you just hate it that you're so shy in front of your crush? You don't want to move or talk, and you just stare at him? It's even more frustrating when you keep thinking about it when you're around him, not knowing what to do. You just want to scream!

Steps

  1. Figure out how you look when you're around your crush and you could even ask some friends how you are whenever you're around him. When you approach him, does your face all of a sudden turn red? Does your body shake? Does your heart skip a beat? Does your body all of a sudden feel sick or cold or warm? You could ask your friends to give you a little update on that each time whether you're near him, close to him, or around him.
  2. Know and remember if your crush sees you like that, he may know you like him. You don't want that to happen because you're not ready for a move yet. And you're not ready because you're reading this article and because you don't know what to do when you're around him.
  3. Whenever you approach your crush, whether you bump into him at a store, at school with friends or by yourself, or just anywhere, stay and remain calm and focus your attention on something else. You should even look at something else that will get your attention off that boy. Like, say you had homework. Think about it and see if you did it right. Or, if you're at a store, you can just look through the aisles and think of what you want to buy. And if you're with friends, don't look in his direction; just try to keep cool-- talk and pay real close attention to what your friends are saying. Try to act as if he isn't even there. Slowly, you'll start to get over your shyness.
  4. If you think about your crush a lot and maybe even daydream about him, slowly start thinking of your crush less and less everyday, so that when you see him, it won't be as big of a deal. Do it slowly because it will not happen right away. It will probably take about 3 days or more, and maybe possibly even a week. But it will help you A LOT!
  5. Once you've gotten over your shyness or feel more comfortable around your crush, stay POSITIVE. Look good, but be yourself and don't change yourself or who you are. it will make you feel better about yourself. Your crush may notice you if you are very positive, confident, smart, and outgoing around him!
  6. Have your friends make you feel better and help you with your crush (Especially the ones you trust). For example, when you're with them, ask them, "Do I look pretty?" and of course they will tell you the honest and real answer--"Yes!"--not a fake answer.
  7. Find something you have in common with him and if it is an activity, ask them how it is going. If it's music, ask him about new concerts or CDs!
  8. Pretend that he is just a normal dude. Try to act like you do around your friends or family members.

Tips

  • Keep up your daily hygiene. (Note: remember,no guy wants a girl that stinks or never takes showers!)
  • Be confident and smile. No dude wants to date a girl that is always sad and has a grim on her face.
  • Try to have a conversation once in a while. (They could get annoyed if you talk to them everyday.)
  • Never, ever, let a boy get in the way of you and your friends (if you ask your friends to help get your crush to like you)
  • Stay calm. Your crush is just a normal, cute, talented, funny guy right?
  • try not to get to nervous and if you do just look away at something else for a while. (if your friends always tap you or raise their eyebrows at you when your crush comes by your crush might know you like him) just saying.

Warnings

  • Don't be desperate to catch his attention. It'll make you look weird and NO ONE will want to talk to you.
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