How to Snuggle With a Girl

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Most girls love to snuggle. Snuggling is a way to feel closer to the person you're with, to show affection, and to sometimes take things to a more intimate level. The trick to being an amazing snuggler is making your body as snuggle-friendly as possible and knowing how to touch a girl to make her want to get closer to you. If you really want to snuggle with a girl but don't know how, just follow these easy steps.

Snuggling on the Couch

  1. Look approachable. If you want to initiate a snuggle session, you have to make your girl want to get all cuddly with you. There are a few ways for your body to say, "It's snuggle time," without you having to be too obvious about it. Once you show her you're ready and that your body is the perfect snuggle tool, she'll come closer. Sit down on the couch first, and let her know what you want. Here's how to show her:
    • Keep your body open. Your arms should be out and your legs should be a little bit apart. Make yourself look bigger than you really are. Expand the snuggle territory.
    • Bonus points if you drape a blanket around yourself or put it on your lap. Women love blankets, and the blanket will draw her near you. If you want, you can even set the temperature a little colder than usual so she'll want your body heat, and the heat of the blanket.
    • Dim the lights. Whether you're watching a movie or just hanging out, nobody want to snuggle with all the lights on.
    • Make sure to have showered and to look your best. If you just came straight from the gym, she won't be too excited about snuggling with you.
  2. Wait for her to join you. Smile and make eye contact when she sits next to you. Without saying anything, let her know you think she looks amazing and you want to get closer. Don't be too obvious about it. Even if your heart is jumping, play it cool.
    • Once she joins you, scoot just a little bit closer to her without being too obvious about it.
  3. Casually put your arm around the couch. You can slowly do this before she joins you, or even do it once she sits next to you. Just avoid the corny "I'm pretending to yawn but really just awkwardly putting my arm around you" move.
    • Remember, your arm should go around the couch, not around the girl. If you put your arm firmly around the girl, she may feel stuck where she is and won't be open to more snuggling.
  4. Start caressing her gently with your other hand. First, put your other hand on her knee and lightly caress it. If she's receptive, you can start holding her hand, and playing with her fingers. As you do this, continue to subtly move closer together.
    • This should feel natural because both of you are moving toward each other. If she's not into it, you'll know because she won't want you to touch her hand or her knee. But if all goes according to plan, you should be moving closer together, so that your knees are almost touching.
  5. Slowly put your arm around her. Now it's time to put old "couch arm" to work. Once you're caressing your girl with one hand and put the other arm around her, you will be in full-out snuggle mode. But you have to be subtle when you put your other arm around her, or she may be startled by your abruptness. Here's what to do:
    • Continue to caress her with your other hand. This will keep her occupied, and will make it easier for you to put your arm around her without her even realizing it.
    • Gently stroke her hair with the arm that was around the couch. Lower the arm until you've stroked her hair a few times.
    • Then, put your arm around her. You've done it!
  6. Wait for her to put her head on your chest. If everything goes according to plan, your girl will love your snuggle moves, and will want to keep things going. Now that you've got your arms both wrapped around her, you should be so close together that your knees are touching.
    • Wait for her to put her head on your chest or the crook of your arm.
    • Stroke her shoulder with the arm that was around her shoulder.
    • Give her a light kiss on the top of the forehead. Girls love this move if it's done correctly.
    • Remember to keep active. You don't have to be caressing the girl every second and it's good to take some to stay still, but ever so often, you should still caress her arm or stroke her hair so you don't feel so locked in.
  7. If you want to mix things up, recline your body. If you like where your cuddle session is going, you can tilt your body until your head is resting on the side of the couch, and your legs are still near the ground but turned toward the other side of the couch. She'll still have her head on your chest, and if you both move correctly, you'll be snuggling with her lying on you.
    • Your bodies won't be facing the exact same direction. Don't lie completely on the couch with her body exactly over yours or that will feel awkward. Just shift your body so you're more in the reclined position so she can drape her body across the couch while still snuggling with you, or even using you as her snuggle pillow.
  8. Try some other couch-friendly snuggling poses. If your snuggle session is going strong, you can try mixing things up so the same old pose doesn't get old. Whether you're sitting up and getting close, or if she's reclined with her head on your chest, you can expand your snuggling repertoire with these easy moves:
    • The sitting spoon. In this classic move, you're both sitting up with your arms around each other, but your girl's legs are folded and turned towards you, so her legs fit onto your lap, and your legs fit below hers.
    • The "Mama Bear Spoon." In this variation of the spoon, your girl will be curled behind you while putting her arms around you.
    • The "Papa Bear Spoon." In this version, you're still spooning with your girl curled up behind you, but this time, you've put your arms around her.
  9. Know which couch-snuggling poses to avoid. Though snuggling on the couch is a perfect way to get closer to your girl, there are a few awkward poses that can lead to you getting too close, or just feeling weird. When you expand your cuddling moves, make sure to avoid these poses at all costs:
    • The dead arm. This is the most common snuggling faux pas. When you're snuggling while you're sitting up, don't spread your arm out in front of your girl's extended arm, so her arm is caught behind you and you've cut off her circulation.
    • The face-to-face cuddle. Unless you're having a make-out session or are dying to let your girl smell whatever you had for dinner, don't cuddle sitting up while your faces are pointed toward each other.
    • The tight squeeze. You may love snuggling with your girl, but don't squeeze her so tightly that she can't breathe. That is not what people mean when they tell you that you should "take her breath away" with your moves.
    • The human knot. If you and your girl are so entwined that it would take an hour just to find out where the heck you've placed your arm, then you are committing a cuddling crime.

Snuggling in Bed

  1. Get close. The first step to snuggling in bed is getting your body close to your girl's. If you're already in bed together, then things must be pretty intimate between you, whether you're waking up in the morning together, are just taking a little nap, or even if you just got it on. Whatever your reason for being in bed together, it's time to get as close as you can. Here's how to do it:
    • First, subtly move closer until your bodies are touching.
    • Then, put your arm around her. This works whether she's facing you, looking up, or even turned in the other direction.
  2. Caress your girl. Now that you've gotten closer, it's time to caress your lady so she wants more of your super snuggling skills. There are a variety of ways to get her into the snuggling mood. Here are a few:
    • Try some gentle kisses. If you're already in bed together, it's pretty likely that you've locked lips, so this shouldn't throw her off her game. But don't kiss on the lips, because that may lead things in a different direction. Kiss her on the top of her forehead or her cheek. If you're feeling bold, you can even lift her hand to your mouth and kiss it, or even kiss her on the shoulders.
    • Stroke her shoulders and her hair.
    • Stroke the small of her back.
  3. Once you're in snuggle mode, try a few classic snuggling poses. Once your bodies are close and you've eased your girl with some gentle caresses, you can experiment with a few different poses to see what snuggle style suits you best. Here are some things to try:
    • The spoon. This is a classic. Take turns with one of you being big spoon and the other being little spoon.
    • Try the star gazer. Have your girl put her head on the fleshy part of your chest, and snuggle up at your side. Put your arm around her while she gazes out.
    • Face each other. Put your girl's head into your chest and wrap your arms around her. Put your chin on her forehead.
  4. Always remember to avoid the "dead arm." The "dead arm" is the worst thing that can go wrong during snuggling session in your bed. But worry not — you and your girl will be able to avoid "dead arm" with just a few easy tricks. Here's what you can do:
    • Do the superman. Get in big spoon mode, but instead of putting your bottom arm around her, hang it up over her head or straight out. You may have to scoot down a little lower in the bed so there's room for your arm.
    • Do the shoulder roll. While you're snuggling, turn your chest closer to the bed so you can easily roll the arm that was supposed to be under your girl behind you.

Tips

  • Practice good hygiene, because snuggling is about being very close.
  • Do not move around a lot. This might be annoying to her or give her a signal you are uncomfortable. However, if you are uncomfortable, change what needs to be changed immediately, instead of trying to put up with whatever it is that is causing the problem.
  • Snuggling is a very intimate process. Though you can try snuggling with a girl you've never kissed if you want to get closer, snuggling works best when you're with a girl you're already very comfortable with.
  • Snuggling has to be done by two individuals of like minds. It cannot be done if only one wants to participate and the other one does not.
  • Don't be afraid to move in to her first if she is not getting the hint.
  • If you're cuddling while sitting up, avoid shaking your leg, or your girl will get nervous.
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